Thursday, March 26, 2009

BLOG NINE - MARCH, 2009

BLOG NINE -NOW WITH PHOTOS!

March 20, 2009
I can’t believe it is almost the end of March already. Today is the first day of spring, but here in Arizona there is no winter as such. The temperature today is 87 º F and I would hardly call that spring-like weather! The climate is so gentle and generally unchanging that one day folds into the next. I know I am way behind in my blog, so here goes an attempt to give you an update.














Typical Arizona Sunset






Craft Show
On March 1st, we were invited to exhibit our crafts and handiwork so that all the residents here could come and appreciate the talented people who stay here. There were gorgeous quilts and other sewing work; some spectacular woodcarving including two beautiful Egyptian pieces in colourful reds and turquoise; acrylic and oil paintings; gourds made to look like birds and a Disney hot air balloon, drums made out of goatskin and other southwest artifacts and of course, jewelry mine own included. Several people admired my new collection of bracelets and I took orders for four over the course of the next few days.

Happy Hour
That evening Stephen and Anna (from Collingwood, Ontario) invited everyone over for margaritas at sunset. Anna and Betty set up a bar and Stephen dispensed the drinks. It is the custom for the invitees to bring food and there was much to choose from.

Off to Mexico
Dentists in the United States and Canada charge a considerable amount of money and it is the tradition here to slip down to Mexico to the highly qualified dentists who charge much less there. I was feeling a twinge in one of my lower teeth and also was overdue for a cleaning, so made an appointment with Mr. Nogame for Monday, March 2nd.

Georgia very generously offered to accompany me on the 175 mile (one way) trip and we set off around 8:00 a.m., stopping at Gila Bend for breakfast at a restaurant that resembles a spaceship. It was great to have Georgia along for company and she also shared the driving. We arrived at the border around 11:30, parked the car and walked across to Los Algodones, Mexico. I know that Americans have been warned to stay away from Mexico, particularly Nogales, but many, many tourists cross here and return safely and I didn’t feel endangered at all. As Dr. Nogame was behind schedule, Georgia and I wandered around the streets where vendors eagerly try to persuade you that they have a good deal for you. We did stop at the farmacia where I bought a large bottle of authentic vanilla for $1.00.

Finally it was my turn to sit in the dentist’s chair – something that I really hate doing. However, Dr. Nogame was very skilled and in no time he had replaced my cracked filling and cleaned my teeth. I wish I could say the same for his assistant, who was obviously just learning. She did not seem to know what she was doing and kept pressing the instruments down pinching my lip. The new filling and cleaning came to only $100.

We then headed home via Yuma, arriving back in Coolidge around 5:30. The local pub, the Galloping Goose, features $5 hamburgers on Mondays, so we joined Georgia’s husband Hoppy plus four others from the RV park for a very good hamburger, french fries and a beer.

Observations on Life at Indian Skies
The RV park reminds me of a small village where everyone knows everybody and will unhesitatingly help a neighbour. Anna and Stephen, Penny and Doug, Georgia and Hoppy have been particularly helpful, fixing things, offering advice, providing materials when needed, etc. Their help has really made my life easier, and even though people take an interest in your life, you are also given the space to do whatever you like.

But in a park where the population is 55 plus, there are bound to be casualties. Two people had the misfortune to pass away while here, and memorial services were held for each in the clubhouse.













Munchkin on one of her many walks




At dusk rabbits hop around my campsite and during the day the various birds are busy vocalizing (mourning doves, starlings, etc.) and building nests in the palm trees. The butterflies are beginning to appear, along with insects of various types including pesky flies. I am told there is a giant skunk who wanders around the park at night, but I have yet to see it.

St. Anthony’s Greek Orthodox Monastery
Many people had told me about the monastery nearby and I decided it was time that I visited it. I must say that the architecture is quite spectacular and the paintings within the various chapels quite beautiful. I decided to head on down on Thursday, March 5, taking Ripley along. But of course I left her in the car, in the shade, while I went into the monastery grounds. I was greeted by women who provided me with the requisite long-sleeved, blouse, long skirt and headscarf. These particular monks have chosen to be celibate, although I do believe that the Greek Orthodox faith does allow the priests to marry.

I caught up with the tour group being guided by one of the younger monks who said he was originally from Alaska. He was in his mid-20’s and it always interests me to know what draws a young man to the priesthood. He took us into the main church and pointed out the beautiful ceiling and chandelier, as well as the altar and high-sided chairs in which the priests sit during services. They have one service at 2:00 a.m. and another at 3:30 p.m., so I am assuming that they retire early.

The gardens are immaculate and restful, with fountains and gazebos and fruit trees here and there, and as I wound my way around the path I came across small chapels dedicated to St. Nicholas and St. George, each with its own style of architecture.

There is a new church being built on a small hill and it reminded me so much of the snow-white buildings with blue accent that one sees in Greece.

There is no admission fee, but a donation is welcome in the gift shop where one can buy homemade breads and preserves, as well as religious items. After returning the borrowed clothing, I left the grounds, stopping to pick up three lemons which were offered to each visitor.

Ripley and I then headed out to a part of the unfenced area of the desert so that she could get a good run in. I often take her to an alfalfa field directly behind the Indian Skies RV Resort where she loves to poke her nose down the gopher holes. She can smell them down there, but just can’t reach them – but that doesn’t stop her from trying!




Ouch!
On March 6th I was making my way over to the office when I stepped in an invisible hole in the grass and went down hard, hurting my knee, hand, elbow and neck. I must say that Rosemary, the office manager, was quite unsympathetic when I hobbled in to report the accident. She was only concerned about getting the hole filled in after I showed her how difficult it was to see with the grass growing in it.

As the day progressed, my hand swelled up and I was sore in various parts of my body. I resorted to ice and a product called BioFreeze.

Fun Day
Once every year the resident committee hosts Fun Day. There are various fun games, like bean bag tossing, miniature golf, ball toss, metal washer toss, and plastic egg passing to music. When the music stops, each participant opens their plastic egg, one of which has a stone inside. I was the lucky one and won a loaf of homemade bread. I also managed to win six cans of soda and beer at the other booths. The day progressed with a free lunch, followed by a horse race in which the human “horses” had to answer questions before progressing towards the finish line.



















Dick and Lorraine



Later in the day, I headed to the VFW for a Mexican dinner of beef fajitas, refried beans, rice, salad and beer while listening to a very good Mariachi band. This was part of the festivities for Cotton Days in Coolidge, an annual fair and festival.





























































There are so many attractions and activities in this region that you could literally keep occupied in just these things. Not to mention that I take Ripley out three or four times daily, and also try to squeeze in water aerobics. Consequently, I find there is little time left for some of the writing that I should be doing.

Curtains for my RV
Besides continuing to make jewelry, especially bracelets that are very popular here, I have begun to make new drapes for my motorhome. I have endured looking at very unsightly and broken dirty pink venetian blinds, and have long wanted to replace them with curtains. Penny very generously gave me some lovely ivory-coloured material and I have slowly been turning it into five sets of drapes, all lined. She also loaned me her sewing machine, and I have taken advantage of the long tables in the craft room to cut and sew. As I didn’t really know what I was doing I have made many mistakes, having to start over again and ripping out stitches, etc. However, as of today, March 20th I have only one pair of drapes left to go. I then have a southwest pattern for the valences and pillows. It really is making a difference to the interior appearance of good old Philippa.

I did, however, have to make a special trip in to Phoenix just to buy pleater tape, as there is no store near here that sells fabric and supplies.

More Ouch
By March 11 my neck and back were really paining me as a result of the fall I had earlier, and I called Kathy to see if she could fit me in for a massage. Unfortunately, she had no openings, but recommended Vivian. She did a wonderful job in easing the pain, particularly in my neck which is an area that gives me a lot of trouble even when I don’t fall down.

Happy Birthday, Georgia
Hoppy invited many people to a birthday party for Georgia at their campsite on March 11, including myself. The tradition is that you bring your own chair and contribute a dish to the food. But there was so much food, that it really wasn’t necessary. As I mentioned earlier, the park is like a small village and the party was another reason to have fun and share experiences.

Sick
I did stay for about two hours, but was beginning to feel very tired so left early. The next morning I realized that I had caught an intestinal virus that has hit several people here in the park. I spent the next two days evacuating everything in my stomach and sleeping.

When Brenda found out I was ill, she offered to take Ripley out for a walk and I was very grateful for her offer. And then Anna learned that I was sick and also offered. She came by early on Saturday morning and took Ripley out to do her business. This is the type of kindness that is so predominant here.

By the afternoon March 14th I began to feel better and hungry. Just in time for the evening’s planned corned beef and cabbage dinner, in honour of St. Patrick’s Day. Most people dressed in green for the occasion and we were treated to Stephen’s idea of funny limericks as we ate, in between listening to Irish music.


























































































Harriet (in pink) from Chatham, Ontario and Bob (in white t) from Ottawa, Ontario






TV Converter Coupon
Here in the United States, all the television signals were supposed to switch to digital by now, but the date has been extended to June. However, the government will provide a $40 coupon towards the cost of a converter box, but you must apply. I did that as soon as I arrived, and finally received coupons for two boxes. I took advantage of this coupon to purchase one box at a cost to me of $19.95. I’ll hold on to the other coupon just in case. But in the meantime, I have really good reception and get about ten channels (including three in Spanish) with just my rabbit ears.

Ice Cream Social
On Sunday March 15th at the evening’s ice cream social, we were treated to a concert by the resident gadget band. The “musicians’ played every kind of strange-looking contraptions that you can imagine – everything from a kitchen mop to a kazoo to tambourine. We sang Irish songs to their accompaniment.

My Brother in Japan
My brother Carl and his late wife Jennie had planned to visit their son Brad and his family Brad who live in Japan, during early March. After losing his wife, Carl wisely decided to go anyway. I have been getting photos of him visiting various places and he is truly enjoying himself. I’m glad for him.

How to Get My Car Home?
In a previous blog I had mentioned that my friends Blue and June Enright had driven my Chevy Malibu down here, so I was left with the problem of what to do with it once I leave here. Should I just store it here? Should I buy a towbar? Should I buy a tow dolly?

After checking out the various options and consulting with a knowledgeable mechanic here, I decided that I would advertise that I was looking for a used tow dolly, as the most economical alternative. And low and behold, a resident right here in the park had one for sale at a reasonable price. So, I now have the dolly attached to my motorhome in preparation for leaving. I did take it into the mechanic along with my motorhome, for servicing, and Loren repacked the bearings in the wheels of the dolly. This will enable me to tow the car behind the motorhome wherever I go – a great thing since I’m heading further south to Benson for awhile and I want to explore the area there.

My Cousins
Jerry and Diane Ziolkoski, my cousins from Winnipeg, Manitoba have been renting an apartment in Mesa. I wanted to see them one more time before I leave the park, and invited them over for a barbecue. The beef here is really good and very reasonable, so we had some wonderful hamburgers, and one last visit. They did invite me to visit them at their cottage in Kenora, Ontario this summer, but I don’t think I’ll be able to get up there. It is quite a distance from southern Ontario.

A New Printer
Like all things that eventually wear out, my printer has stopped printing. I went searching in the two thrift stores in Coolidge, and came across an HP printer/scanner/copier/fax machine for $5. What a bargain!

Spring in the Desert
The desert plants are all beginning to bloom, showing a remarkable variation in colour and design – from bright reds, to yellows, mauve, pink and blue. The orange blossoms are out, wafting a wonderful fragrance over the entire park, and the many oleanders here are starting to open their white or red flowers as well. It truly is remarkable how the desert comes alive at this time of year.

Another Barbecue
There are three couples here in the park who have been extremely helpful in one way or another, and I decided to repay their kindness with a steak barbecue. In Canada there is no way that I could afford sirloin steaks, but here the prices is so much cheaper that I was able to buy six very huge steaks for $12. I added Cajun style black beans and rice, red potatoes. Georgia and Hoppy provided a salad; Anna and Stephen provided wine, and Penny and Doug brought two wonderful banana cream pies. All in all, a wonderful meal enjoyed by all.

Amish Dinner
Because I am still working on finishing my curtains and valences for the motorhome, I decided to remain for awhile yet, past my original departure date. On Saturday, March 21, a group of the residents hosted an Amish pork dinner – deliciously cooked pork, potatoes, sauerkraut, with ice cream for dessert. Stephen acted as narrator, and provided us with interesting historical tidbits about the Amish lifestyle.

Owls
I am sorry to report that something has happened to the pair of burrowing owls that I reported in an earlier blog. One of the pair has disappeared and the remaining individual is spooked now whenever I drive by. Instead of standing quietly as it used to, it flies away, over to another owl’s neighbourhood. It looks a though one of them may have been the victim of a predator, perhaps a hawk or perhaps a coyote or bobcat from the nearby mountains. What a shame. I was really crossing my fingers that they might have had a nest.

































































































































































































































































































































































Observing Water Aerobics
Whenever I can spare the time, I have been joining a water aerobics class. I find it is very beneficial, especially for my back and neck and it is nice to do the exercises with other women my age. What I find very amusing is that there is one particular mourning dove (at least I’m assuming it’s the same bird every time) who flies down to the pool deck and watches us while we go through the various exercises. I imagine that we must look very strange to this bird, as we wave our arms in the air, jog across the pool and perform all sorts of contortions, but I’ve never seen a bird take an interest in human activity like this one.

A Lucky Cat
Early in the year a very skinny black cat began to hang around one particular trailer at the end of one of the rows near the back of the park. The people there felt sorry for it and started to feed it, and eventually it lost its fear and allowed herself to be stroked. I don’t remember the name of the husband and wife, but the wife took the cat into the veterinary office and had her spayed and vaccinated, and named her Ebony. Well, the cat is now looking sleek and healthy, and the wife mentioned to me a few weeks ago that she is concerned about leaving it behind. She had asked the staff in the park to feed it until they return next year, but she was concerned that they would not do so and the cat would deteriorate once again.

Thank goodness there are still kind-hearted people in this world. Lucky Ebony is going home with them on the plane – all the way to the Yukon!

Today is March 26. I was planning to head down to Benson today, but there is a wind advisory, with winds gusting up to 40 mph. I decided that it would be prudent to wait another day until the winds die down, especially since I will be towing my car for the first time.

Saturday, February 28, 2009

BLOG EIGHT

BLOG EIGHT

February 28, 2009

It doesn’t seem possible that it is the end of February already! The time just seems to fly by here in Arizona. There are so many activities and events, both inside and outside the park, that one could be busy all day long, every day.












My site at Indian Skies RV Resort































Canadian Dinner
However, I have been picking and choosing and still have enjoyed some interesting events. On February 14 the Canadian contingency put on a delicious roast beef dinner for the crowd. 252 people showed up, each paying $6 for a complete meal of salads, roll, mashed potatoes, mixed vegetables, roast beef and gravy, plus a Jello dessert with a small Canadian flag inserted into the whipped cream on top. This is a popular annual affair.








Stephen and Anna



















Our table - Sandra, Penny, Doug


































Native Indian Music Festival
The local national monument Casa Grande Ruins held its first ever Native Indian Music Festival from February 13 through 15. Penny, Doug, Sandra and I went on the Friday evening, stopping to view the various stalls where native Indians were demonstrating their crafts of jewelry making, pottery, basket weaving and flute making. I have always been fascinated by the haunting music of the flute and ended up buying one from Odell Borg, who gave me my first lesson as well. He showed me how to hold the instrument and how to attain the various notes. He suggested that I not look down while playing, but rather look in the mirror, and I have to admit that it made it easier to close the holes to make the appropriate note. I look forward to practising so that I might even be able eventually to play this ancient instrument. It’s a bit difficult with my arthritic fingers, but not impossible, and gives me pleasure.









Some of the more expensive flutes

























On the Friday evening we sat in the seats set up at the music tent right beside the sacred ruins. We were just in time to watch Brian Hammill, a skilled hoop dancer.













Afterwards, an elder from the nearby tribe did a blessing acknowledging that we were in the presence of a structure sacred to his people. The evening program continued featuring Loren Russell, flutist and Randy Granger, playing the Hang – a type of kettle drum.





















They played separately and together and as the sun set, the music added something very special to the setting. Unfortunately, Penny, Doug and Sandra had not brought jackets and retreated to the Visitor Center to keep warm. I stayed on to watch the Akimel O’odham Basket Dancers from a nearby village. I couldn’t help feeling sorry for them as they danced in their bare feet. When the sun goes down, the temperature turns cold very rapidly.
















My cousin Jerry and his wife Diane have again rented an apartment in Mesa, about an hour away. They live in Winnipeg, Manitoba so I don’t see them very often. They came down to my park on Sunday February 15, and after lunch we headed over to the Casa Grande American Indian Music Fest for the afternoon where we saw performances by classical guitarist Gabriel Ayala.

















Loren Russell and Randy Granger performed once more as well.























Gabriel Ayala







This was the first attempt the rangers in the park had made in putting on the Music Festival. I have to compliment them on the excellent job of organizing the entire event, including the shuttle buses back and forth to the shopping malls nearby where we parked our cars, the food stalls and vendors, but most especially the performances by the talented American Indians. I’m sure it will only get bigger in future years.

Alterations to the Motorhome
My neighbours Stephen and Anna (also from Ontario) had shown me how they had removed a seat in their bus and replaced it with a computer table which they had bought in Coolidge here. So I thought that it work well for me too. Stephen and Gorm removed my seat and installed the 24” wide computer table that has a shelf on the bottom for my printer, a slide-out for the keyboard, a desktop for the laptop and two shelves above that for paper, pens, etc. It’s perfect! I was then able to pick up a steno chair for $13 from a thrift shop here. It makes all the difference for working on the computer. Now, if only I could get a signal on my wi fi whenever I wanted it, instead of intermittently, things would be perfect!

My Attempt at Line Dancing
On Monday February 16 I joined the beginner’s line dancing class in the clubhouse. I had no idea it would be such a workout! By the end of the hour my leg muscles were telling me they needed a rest – but it was lots of fun. Now, if I can only remember the steps. I had hoped to continue the next week, but I came down with the flu and was too weak to attend the next class.

Local Wildlife
Even though we live in the park here, there have been lots of wildlife sightings. There are lots of mourning doves and magpies hovering around first thing in the morning, greeting us as the sun rises. However, I didn’t expect to see a roadrunner or small rabbits running between the trailers. I also identified a Scott’s Oriole perched on my neighbour’s antenna.



























I didn’t see it myself, but I am told there is a giant skunk that makes the rounds after dark.

In the abandoned subdivision I still see the five burrowing owls, and am crossing my fingers that one day I will see chicks beside the pair. I would love to photograph the family!

As I drove along the street that takes me to the abandoned subdivision, I spied several gophers in the raised ditch that runs very near the road. They don’t seem too perturbed by cars driving by, but are equally prepared to scoot down their burrow hole if necessary. Sometimes all you see is a head peeking out of the hole. I know they are considered a nuisance by farmers, but I enjoy seeing them.





































Sunset Barbecue
On February 19 a group of us took advantage of the new gazebo that has been built at the rear of the park for a sunset barbecue. Everyone contributed to the meal – hamburgers, salads, cheese and fruit plates – and plenty of homemade desserts. We christened the new firepit, and I was called upon to rescue a small lizard that had made its way into the woodpile used to start the fire. It wasn’t able to climb the wall of the concrete firepit, so while several people became alarmed but didn’t react, Zoo Keeper Marilyn took care of this little creature, carrying it safely away from the fire. Once in a while my old training comes in handy.















The new gazebo also sports the flags of the home provinces of the residents, representing British Columbia, Saskatchewan, Alberta, Manitoba, Yukon Territories, Ontario and Quebec. We’ll have to persuade some Maritimers that it’s worth the trip too.

Craft Class
Every Friday Penny teaches a different craft and February 20 we made a lovely decoration from a gourd grown locally. I painted a scene of three stylized horses on mine, and decorated the stand it sits on. I have no idea where I’ll put it, but it was lots of fun to make it. Penny has such a wonderful way of encouraging everyone to try. I am not much of a painter, but she really helps.

Scottsdale Arabian Horse Show
This is the 54th year for this annual event! I recall that when I was a teenager, it was my sincerest wish to be able to attend this show – and now this is the second year in a row that I finally have.

On Sunday, February 22 I drove to Jerry and Diane’s apartment in Mesa and the three of us drove to Scottsdale to the Westworld show grounds, spending the afternoon watching several exciting events including English Pleasure, Western Pleasure, Park Horse, cow wrangling and Costume class. The latter class was quite spectacular with both rider and horse bedecked in Arabian costumes. It was just wonderful to watch these magnificent Arabian and Half Arabian horses as they went through their paces.







































We stopped at the booth for Casino Arizona on the way out and spun the wheel there. I won a stuffed horse!

However, I was fighting off a sore throat and aching muscles that day and the next morning I knew that I had the flu. Penny very thoughtfully made me some homemade chicken soup, the old standby, and it must have worked. By Wednesday I was feeling fine.






My First Teaching Gig Here
It’s just as well that I was better by Wednesday, February 25, for that was the day that I had scheduled a class to teach beginners how to make a necklace.













































There were nine women who attended and I am very proud to say that they all made a lovely necklace with guidance from myself, Penny and Lorraine. And it provided me with a little extra cash, some of which I used to schedule an appointment with Kathy Burchett, a wonderful massage therapist in nearby Casa Grande. I enjoyed meeting her last year, and we’ve kept in touch via email, so I truly looked forward to undergoing her tender ministrations on the Thursday. She has a natural ability to understand the body and what needs working on. I came out of there feeling euphoric.

Fresh Fruit – and Plants
This is the season for oranges and grapefruits locally grown here. I picked up a bag of about 2 dozen oranges for $4.00 from a roadside stand, and a lady neighbour of the park dropped off bags and bags of free grapefruit for the residents. So my fridge compartment is loaded with these delicious citrus fruits. They are so much better than what can be bought in Canada at this time of year.

As for the plants, well, I just couldn’t resist visiting a nursery called Distinctive Landscapes, which is located on the road into Casa Grande. I actually stopped by to see if I could buy some eggs from their free-range chickens, but alas, there were 32 orders ahead of me! But I added my name to the list and hopefully I’ll be able to get some before I leave.

As I was wandering around the gorgeous rows of cacti, citrus plants and geraniums, I spied some flats of lithops (stone flower) and euphorbia obesum, both of which I used to have back in Pickering when there was a greenhouse. These are succulents that are hard to find. I couldn’t resist buying one of each, especially since the prices were so reasonable – only $1.98 each. Then of course I had to find a nice pot to put them in. I headed off to the nearby thrift store where there are all sorts of bargains available and found a suitable small pot for only $4.

A Published Author
Doug Thompson is a free spirited man who travels wherever he wishes in his trailer, writing. He has several books that he has published and so far I have finished one called Trapper Lake (the story of a woman who lives in the Minnesota wilderness), and am about to start on another one called The Human Tribe. It is refreshing to meet and chat with someone who can challenge you intellectually. He seems to have lived quite an interesting life, and is leaving here in early March to head south to Benson, Arizona. Since I will be heading that way myself, we will probably meet up and explore some of the area together.


Jane Webster
One of the ladies who took my jewelry class is Jane Webster. She and her husband Charlie live in one of the double wides here during the winter (Wyoming is their permanent home), and she had offered her place to do some beading together. I took her up on her offer on Saturday, February 28, and we spent several pleasant hours together helping each other with suggestions. I managed to make a few necklaces and a bracelet and plan to exhibit mine at the craft show that is planned here in the park for tomorrow. Jane, in turn, repaired a couple of gorgeous necklaces that she already had, including one spectacular turquoise and silver necklace, so we each probably accomplished more together than we would have separately. I don’t really have room in my motorhome to spread out my materials and that hampers me from starting, so going to Jane’s gave me the incentive to work on this craft that I really enjoy.

Ripley
I realized after reading this blog that I hadn’t mentioned Ripley, so thought I should add a few lines about my wonderful companion. She still charms everyone and has made many friends in the park. As we walk around she greets them all and has to growl at some of the resident dogs too. There are plans to build a dog park in the back area, so it will be nice to let them run loose.












Penny with Ripley
















I do make a point of taking Ripley out of the park every day to let her off leash to chase her ball – still her favourite activity.



Thursday, February 12, 2009

BLOG SEVEN

February 12, 2009

I am now back at Indian Skies RV Resort here in Coolidge, Arizona. What a contrast to the weather in Ontario! The sun is shining; the temperature is 65ºF. I’ve just taken Ripley for a walk around the park, and stopped to visit with three different couples, all of whom happen to be from Ontario too.

Sad Days
The trip home was very sad, of course. But I was pleased to see that about 100 people came to Jennie’s funeral, and many more to the visitations. Jennie was a very kind and generous person and touched many people, including myself. Her oldest son Chris, read a very touching tribute to Jennie at the funeral, and her daughter Sheri read a letter from a dear friend of Jennie’s who could not attend because she was presiding at someone else’s funeral in the little town of Kearney where Jennie grew up. There wasn’t a dry eye in the chapel. I still have trouble taking in the reality that Jennie is gone. I will miss her dearly.

The six grandchildren had an opportunity to say goodbye, something they might remember as they get older. The youngest, little Dima who is only two years old, and possibly Tyler who is three, may not remember much, but the four older ones will, I’m sure. They all loved visiting Grandma.

My great-nieces Cassandra and Daria
Brad, Carl and Jennie’s middle son, flew over from Japan and had an opportunity to say goodbye to Jennie before she passed away (although she was unconscious); his wife Kazuko and two children Taiyou and Mizuki, flew over for the funeral. I had not seen them since they left three years ago, and so it was with mixed emotions that I greeted them again.

Brad's wife Kazuko, Brad, Gerald husband of my niece Sheri,
Sheri and their son Tyler
My brother Carl is handling his grief; he and Jennie were married for 42 years and it will not be an easy transition for him. Before Jennie became ill, the two of them had planned to visit Brad’s family in Japan. I’m pleased that Carl has decided to go anyway, and he leaves on February 28th for three weeks. Brad will see that he has a good time there.

Carl and I had an opportunity to chat about our futures, and it looks as though he will follow in my path – winters in the south (although he favours Florida) and summers at an RV park in Ontario. If he is fortunate enough to find and make friends as I have here in Arizona, he will enjoy himself.

Because Brad and his family were staying at Carl’s house, I opted to stay in a motel nearby and found an excellent package deal for the airfare and motel. It only cost me $8 U.S. extra for the five nights in the motel over the cost of the airfare. The Comfort Inn in Mississauga was quite comfortable and even had a fridge and microwave in the room, so I didn’t have to put out money for restaurant meals all the time. Of course, I shared meals with my family too.

On Sunday evening, Feb. 10 Chris invited all of us to his house for dinner. His wife Natalya makes wonderful cakes for a living and supplied two for the reception after the funeral, plus she made my favourite dessert – tiramisu – for the Sunday dinner. It was an opportunity for Carl, his three children and six grandchildren and me to sit around and relax after a very stressful couple of days.

Chris's wife Natalya, their son Dimitri, their daughter Daria
and my brother Carl
Back to Arizona
On Monday I was up at 3:00 a.m. in order to be at the airport by 4:00. The first leg of the flight was Toronto to Cincinnati, and then after an hour’s wait I flew on to Phoenix. Stephen collected me at the Phoenix airport and we drove back to Indian Skies, about an hour away. Many of the park residents offered me their condolences and most importantly of all, many people ensured that Ripley was kept occupied in my absence. They took her for walks, played ball with her, allowed her to lie on their couches. Penny and Doug Poyntz allowed her to sleep in their bed with them. I did worry about her while I was gone, and of course she was pleased to see me, but also was quite happy with the people who generously gave their time to her so that she wouldn’t feel abandoned. I had left my sweatshirt with Penny and Doug and I’m told that she did sleep on it. I am blessed to have such good friends.

Since returning I haven’t done too much. I feel tired and listless, but I did go to a potluck dinner in the rec hall last night, and met some more people. There are about 250 people here in the park, with more arriving all the time, so it is impossible to know everyone. I sat beside Noella and Tom, who live on a farm near Exeter, Ontario. On my other side was a couple from Oregon whose names I now forget. The hot tub has also been very soothing.

Penny’s Purchases
Penny had gone back to the Tucson Gem Show and bought three kachina dolls for me. These are hand-made and signed and are just wonderful. I have a hoop dancer, a lizard and a badger, all of which symbolize something to the Navajo. They will make great gifts, and I will be donating one to the annual COTERC fundraising dinner next fall.

Last Saturday, Feb. 9 there was a craft sale here at Indian Skies. Penny, Sandra and Linda set up a table on my behalf, and sold some of my necklaces and earrings.

Ontario Flag
When I left to return to Canada, I noticed that there were many state flags flying here in the park but nothing from Canada’s provinces. While I was home, Carl drove me over to the local Member of the Provincial Parliament, who gave me an Ontario flag to bring back. He was very considerate and pleased to provide a flag when I explained to him that it would be flying at an RV park in Arizona where many Ontario residents spent the winter.

However, when I returned here I discovered a whole new set of flags of all the provinces of the people staying here had been erected at the back of the park beside the new gazebo, so the one I obtained was redundant. Doug Poyntz is a great scrounger and he found an IV pole in the junkpile at the back of the park. So, together we fashioned a flagpole and hung the flag in front of my RV. It needs to be a bit higher, so I will go to the local hardware store to get a dowel to add to the height.

I also had scrounged a lovely round clay pot and went over to nearby Earthscape Design where they sell a wonderful variety of cacti and other plants. I bought an ice plant, which now resides in the pot in front of my RV. Many of the seasonal residents here have decorated their little yard with plants and other assorted southwestern artifacts, and I would do the same if I were here for the entire six months.

Another Melancholy Day
February 11 was another memorable day for me. It was three years ago today that I lost my precious meerkat Timon to liver cancer. My female meerkat Timona lived another five months before succumbing to insulinoma on August 1, 2006. All my pets have been wonderful and each has left an indelible mark on me, but the two meerkats were like my children, and I still mourn them.

Munchkin
There is a calico cat down the road in the park who thinks she’s a dog. Her name is Munchkin and she saunters along on a leash as she is taken for walks a few times a day. She’s quite comical to see and her owners (also from Ontario) enjoy the comments that passersby make.

Munchkin on one of her strolls
What Lies Ahead
There is a busy weekend coming up. The nearby Casa Grande Ruins is having a 3-day event featuring native musicians, dancers and artisans, and I’ll be going there at least once, if not more.
Tomorrow morning Penny is teaching yet another craft class to make a spirit doll. I will go to help, but since I made one last year, I won’t be participating in the actual class. Penny has asked me to teach an introductory class on making jewelry, and I’m flattered to be asked, considering that I only began doing this a year ago under her tutelage.

On Saturday evening, St. Valentine’s Day, there will be a Canadian dinner featuring roast beef with all the trimmings, for only $6 each. I was lucky that Penny and Doug had reserved a ticket for me, as it is sold out. Last year it was a wonderful meal and there was entertainment as well. There will be a dance with local musicians later, but I probably won’t go to that, since I don’t have a dancing partner.

February and March are very busy months here in the park, and there are many events coming up in addition to the regular card games, water exercises, craft classes, etc. Besides these, the Arabian Horse Show in Scottsdale is fast approaching, and later in March is the Indian Fair and Market at the Heard Museum. I went to both of these events last year and enjoyed them tremendously, so will definitely add them to the calendar.

This morning, on my walk with Ripley, I stopped to watch bees feeding from the nectar on a flowering bush at the back of the park. There are rabbits that hop about my site in the park. And Yesterday, I photographed a cactus wren perched on my neighbour’s satellite dish.
Cactus Wren
I often go over to visit the burrowing owls in the abandoned subdivision behind the park, and hope to see some chicks on one of these visits. Ripley loves to go there because I can let her off the leash and play ball with her. Later today we went over there and discovered a fifth burrowing owl! It has its burrow amongst some tumbleweed and is completely hidden from the road, but Ripley went in to retrieve her ball and flushed the bird out. It flew off a little way, so I’ll know now to keep Ripley away from that area.

Tonight I’m indulging in perogies and cabbage rolls, courtesy of Penny. She is of Polish descent and made up a huge bunch to share – a typically generous gesture of hers. They were delicious.